Sex with someone other than your partner

Hi ladies..

I’m having a really hard time processing everything that just happened haha. First a bit of background.. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. Lately I’ve really been craving things that I’m not receiving e.g. affection. When we hang out he’s either watching videos on his phone or playing video games. I’ve told him a number of times it bores me but it still happens. I’m bored of the sex too. It’s the same every time and also have no desire. Though in saying all of this when I think of the future I only imagine him to be the father of my children.

Last night I had a dream I caught up with a guy who I use to like through the entirety of high school who also liked me back. Just to clarify we never were more than friends. Nothing and I mean nothing happened between us either. In this dream we hooked up right away which turned into sex. I know nothing will ever happen but now it’s got me thinking.

I REALLY need advice on what to do