He has 2 jobs and eats me out too much

Yes I’ve been writing about my boyfriend working too much because he has two jobs not texting back fast enough and him eating me out too much! People say I’m spoiled but I’m not I just don’t trust guys! Plus he’s not passionate enough about arguing..Every time i start an argument he never wants to argue he always calms me down..I want to argue but he just gives in to make me feel better..he makes me feel emotionally stable but I want a little crazy arguing sometimes. He just doesn’t take it there with me I don’t feel he’s passionate enough. If he was passionate he would argue with me not compromise with me. I really like him but if he doesn’t fight passionately I will leave him. I like him a lot but text back fast enough, tell me who you’ve gave oral sex to, and argue with me when I’m mad!!!