I couldn’t find a good group to post in but I figured this was as close as any. My sister is not pregnant, she’s not trying to be either and it has nothing to do with that. I just have no where else to go to talk without her knowing or seeing.

My sister has not been happy for a long time, she before would never come out and admit it, she always put on a brave face. She has been in a relationship for the last four years and he is a complete a$s to her and treats her like sh*t and uses her generosity and willingness to do things. She recently moved to TX with him he got a job offer. She packed up everything, left the state she grew up in and lived in for 28years . Said goodbye to all her family and friends ( this was back in June) his attitude towards her got worse (she has been the primary bread winner, she has never and is not the type to rub that in someone’s face. However he is. I could go on about their relationship but I’m sure you got the gist of it. We have told her an pleaded with her to leave, we’ve offer for her to come stay with us n start fresh.

She is the type of person that hates confrontation so she sucks it up an just deals an moves on..... anyways since moving to TX as far as depression she is as sad as I’ve ever seen but won’t admit it, till yesterday, she made 2 post on Facebook one was of God’s serenity prayer then a little later one about why do people try to portray that their lives are perfect when they are not why do the lie an drag others into it an went on to say that she was doing that, that she wasn’t mentally ill but just feeling a little crazy. I texted her last night before bed asking if she was ok an needed to talk because this was unlike her she texted back

Sarah I don’t want to be here anymore

I’m not crazy

I just feel crazy

It’s not him

It’s not work

It’s not TX

I don’t know what it is

Yall this is not my sister, I wish I could just drive over to her house an give her the biggest hug ever! I know she says it’s not those things but from the outside looking it I believe it is an May not be to her but I think these things an events led her to feel like this. I don’t know what to do or what to say except that I love her so much an I’m here if she needs to talk. I’m really worried for her. My family (hubby an kids) are the closet family to her an we are 8 hours away the rest of my family is about 20 hours away. Part of me wants to (politely) reach out to her boyfriend an ask what’s going on an have a conversation with him. I’ve always told him that my husband an I where always available to come talk to about anything.

I just don’t know what to do yall