relationship help. š
my fiancĆ© and i have been fighting and itās to the point to where iām just gonna up and leave.
i have a child with someone else, before we met. he has 2 kids in his custody, that i stay home with and take care of. the donor of my son, is wanting to switch days from the custody papers because of conflicts. i agreed and told my fiancƩ and he flips his lid.
on multiple occasions, heās throwing in my face that itās ridiculous that he has to pay for a child that i had with another man and that his donor should be doing it. (iām not saying i disagree, we havenāt even received child support, but, he was awarded visitation.) heās being down right mean and doesnāt seem to understand that he had talked down to me on multiple occasions. iām seriously getting to the point to where i donāt want to be with him anymore. iām not happy with how iām being treated. i do everything for him and literally when he comes home, i still take care of the kids, cook for everyone and clean. he doesnāt do a damn thing and doesnāt try to spend time with me. itās getting to where he keeps saying that i should just marry my sonās donor instead. like, iām at a loss and itās pissing me off. iām wanting to up and leave and have him understand that it isnāt okay for him to talk to me and treat me the way he has been. it seems like he doesnāt care about our relationship and if iām happy. he honestly doesnāt give a shit. and iām just fed up with being treated like this after i found out thereās a high possibility iām pregnant with his child.
should i just walk away and let him deal with everything on his own and move on, or should i try and talk to him and get him to understand how iām feeling?
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