Anal... yes or no?

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Okay ladies, so for some reason my boyfriend has been begging me every time we have sex to do anal. IS IT WORTH IT? 
I’m beyond terrified to have anal because when we were beyond drunk he rammed it in my ass on accident. 
IF I do ever agree to this, how should I prep? What should we use (besides a lot of lube). Is there anything I should do that wouldn’t hurt as bad? 
😂

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It’s rubbish

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Im not a fan at all. Even with a truck load of lube its uncomfortable. My husband has rammed it in on accident twice and each time was unbearable. The whole thing makes me uncomfortable now. I tried it a few times. Didnt like it

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I’ve always been skeptical about trying it but once i did I actually really enjoyed it the orgasms are better.

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I cum harder with anal than vaginal. But you definitely have to prep it right. Buy an anal starter kit. They have different size butt plugs that will help you slowly stretch to handle his size. You don't have to do it all in one day. It took us a month (didn't try it every night so if you did it would probably take half the time) before I was ready for him. The position matters too. I find the best position for starters is for you to lay on your back with multiple pillows under your hips. Use as many as it takes to prop you up high enough for him to be able to comfortably insert himself into you. This position is also good because it allows easy access to the clitorus. I like to use a vibrator on my clit during and it will help you relax and aroused faster, making anal a bit easier. Be sure to buy anal specific lube. It has numbing gel in it for the woman. The brand we like is pjur's analyze me water based personal lubricant with hyaluronan

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I don’t care how much lube you use, if he just penetrates your ass with his dick right off the bat, that is gonna hurt. Use fingers and toys to basically loosen you up a bit. Also, whatever you do to get off (play with your clit, etc), do that while this is all happening so that you’re more likely to associate the feeling with pleasure instead of focusing only on the discomfort that may occur.

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I’m afraid of pooping lol not the pain but just pooping. This ever happen to anyone?

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So we did anal tonight with no lube or anything and it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be, but I can honestly say that I did NOT like it. Especially the ending 😂

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Tried it and dont like it. I dont like the before prep. Doesn't feel good during and I dont like all the yuckiness that goes on after.

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I tried it  and it was amazing the first time, I had no pain at all. I did pretty much only anal for a time because the guy i was with was very into it and I didn't have to worry about getting pregnant. If you do want to do it, what I did was I showered and shaved beforehand, cleaned myself very thoroughly (don't put anything unsafe in your body!!! you do not need any chemicals in there) and don't eat 6 hours beforehand. you can eat 2 or 3 hours or 30 minutes beforehand, but you don't want to be far in the digesting process. (i have a faster metabolism so I didn't eat 3 or 4 hours beforehand and was fine). then for physical prep, you need to take time. Being eaten out and fingered is a must. try a buttplug if you're feelin it!!! we didn't use lube and I was completely fine but other people say it's a must so to be safe you should have that on hand. also, orgasms help to relax, so one or however many beforehand helps. and GO SLOW. go very slow first even if you think you don't need to. if you're worried about that, you being on top gives you control over that. 
i'm sorry if this is all over the place friend or if I am coming off weird?, i'm pretty high at the moment because i'd not smoked for 2+ months and a friend just came over and treated me. but BE SAFE, I hope if you do try it that it's a great time 😌🤪🖖 ❤!!!

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Use lube. Practice first by either toys or fingers a few times before deciding on the full D experience. Lol. But seriously the best orgasms I ever have. Can be totally pleasurable as long as you and boyfriend take it slow to start and make sure he knows your in control and stop if it hurts. Lube. Lube. Lube.

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