Would you rather your son be abusive or gay?

I’ve met so many women who are very hard on their sons. Beat the shit out of them! Show them no love so that they’re not “gay” as if your sexuality is based off of how you were raised 🤣 clearly this abuse passes on to the guy and I think that’s a small piece of why some of them are the way they are. My fiancé’s mom was like this. Thank God he’s not a terrible person! And when discussing it with her she said she doesn’t care what her sons do as long theyre not gay.... I said what if they beat or raped someone.... “as long as he isn’t gay, I will stand by him”

So would you rather your son not know how to express emotions and beat his wife... or be gay??