Ready to have a baby ?

I would absolutely love to have a child and I hope to be a stay-at-home mom. My husband, while he does want to have kids with me someday, says that he’s not ready. And while I completely respect that, it does still break my heart that we won’t be having a kid anytime soon. Tonight after sex (he pulled out) he was trying to comfort me and saying that he would be so excited to be a dad and if it did happen he would be more than happy. While I know he is trying his best to comfort me and take away my pain, it just makes me more sad to hear him say that because I don’t want him to “want” to have a kid just to make me happy.

I know that was a little confusing but I just feel so bad that I’m causing him to feel bad as well.