Am I wrong.; rant

Okay, so my boyfriend and I live together with my parents and we have a 1 year old daughter together. He works and I’m a stay at home mom, so that means he pays for my phone, insurance, the rent they charge us & everything. I’ve offered to get a job because I feel awful, and I’m not used to people paying for my stuff. Ever since I could work I have, this is the first year I haven’t due to taking care of little one. He tells me it’s not sensible and pointless for me to work, Well, I gained alot of pregnancy weight and ive asked several times if we could work out together or if he would just watch the baby so I could, and if we could start eating right and he basically said he wasn’t gonna eat any of the “healthy diet” food so that means I would be making multiple meals, as I do the cooking, cleaning grocery shopping ect. He doesn’t help with baths/diapers unless it’s just pee and that’s only sometimes, I feel like he hardly spends time with her. But if he wants to go do something he can, he just does it. He might ask if it’s okay but that really just means he’s telling me what hes gonna be doing. He’ll leave for entire weekends to go riding , go hunt, just anything. But I don’t get to. If I want to do something alone I have to find a babysitter or ask his/my parents. And today he told me after work he’s going to work out with his friend , and I got upset because I’ve been asking literally all year. To have a membership, or just him watch her so I can go with my mom bc she has a membership & he refuses, or hes tired and has to be up for work it’s always something so I can’t go. But now that he wants to go with his friend it’s alright.. and I was like okay I’ve been asking for months and his response was that his friend has a membership and we don’t... like feels like he doesn’t think being a stay at home mom is work , and because he makes the money he makes the rules and does whatever he wants. Am I in the wrong or what. Like..