um... please help

okay so last night i was snapchatting this guy and we’re teasing each other a little bit. things kinda started to heat up and we started to send some pictures...

well he was talking about what he’d do to me in the bed and was also sending some dick pics. so i started to finger myself, but nothing was really happening... like i didn’t feel anything good down there or anywhere. i don’t know if i was doing it wrong or if i should do it some other way.

but like whenever i think about doing it with him i get this tingly feeling all over but when i try to finger myself while getting pics from him nothing happens. i like getting the pics and all but whenever i try to spice things up with myself it doesn’t go as planned.

so i don’t really know what to do... any advice