Bachelor parties

I really hope im not the only one with these views. But i will absolutely not be having a bachelertte party and if my so or his friends insist on him having a bachelor party (the typical-go to strip club, do stupid shit that has no place in a relationship) but that would be enough for me to call off the wedding completely. Ive been to enough bachelorette parties and what goes on would be an ending factor for any healthy relationship i feel. So all in all im really against that tradition... am i th e only one?? Am i being cruel to not let my SO go out like that one more time before we're married??