Would you tell you Best Friend you are pregnant near her wedding date?

Question

So I am in my bffs wedding at the end of December and plan on announcing to family around Christmas. I've been dying to tell her about my pregnancy but worries of her reaction.
Her other bridesmaid recently got engaged so she was pretty upset because that particular bridesmaid is trying to upstage my friend now and I  feel bad for my bff because she's so sweet. Anyways I just really don't want to thunder thief her in any way so I'm considering just waiting until after the wedding but feel that may upset her too that I waited. 🤷‍♀️

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Why on earth would someone else be upset because one of their friends got engaged or is pregnant? I’m sorry you have to deal with this!

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I mean do not announce it at her wedding stealing the show but otherwise she has not right to be mad...

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If she really is your best friend, there is no need to not feel comfortable enough to tell her when you’re ready and she’d truly be happy for you or her other friends as well.

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People are allowed to have life events regardless of when their friends have their own life events. I think it’s ridiculous she’s upset about someone getting engaged. I HIGHLY doubt her friend was thinking “ya know what we should do?! Get engaged around the time my friend gets married to make her mad!” 
Chances are if she’s petty/childish enough to get mad about that she will also get mad about your pregnancy though. Some people just think the world revolves around them 🙄

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I’d wait until after her wedding to tell her in private. I would let my friend shine and get her excitement about her wedding, and always make sure she was the centre of attention until after. I would feel awful if I “ stole” her spot light. A girls wedding day is some women’s dream.

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No because somebody can overhear or find out and announce it at her wedding as a way to tell you congrats. I'd wait until after the wedding or even after the 12 week mark of pregnancy.

Would you tell you Best Friend you are pregnant near her wedding date?

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