I’m so upset :(

I told my boss and pretty much my manager that I was pregnant because I felt they deserved to know because I was calling off days and wasn’t feeling well

They know i have had a miscarriage before and I did not want to tell anyone until after my next appointment to verify everything is okay before I tell

And even so I was only going to tell those I’m close to

And I did not want any lesser known people knowing until I had my anatomy scan around 20 weeks

My boss specifically asked when I was going to start telling people and I told her 20 weeks

Today one of my coworkers walks up to me and says “I guess your due for my congratulations”

And my heart sank

I told her not to tell anyone and that I was really upset that she knew

And then she proceeds to tell me that everyone knows and then has the audacity to ask if this was a ‘happy thing’

Of course it’s a happy thing but I have shit going on right now

I’m stressed on whether or not things are going to be okay

Whether it be the baby, my relationship with its father, and whether or not I can pay my bills

And I really wanted to figure it out before I told people just Incase I needed to abort due to anything medical , whether for whatever reason I felt it would be better for adoption, whether something for whatever reason out of my control happened to the baby, and I wanted to figure out my boyfriend and my relationship before announcing to anyone.

And granted my boss and my manager do not know 100% of all that’s going on in my life , because I didn’t feel I needed to tell them

But they/or she shouldn’t have told my business to my coworkers in the first place