What do I do

Question

Been married for 3 years and together for 9 I don’t know if I am still in love with my husband he is an amazing father but it feels like we are just living life. Our sex life doesn’t excite me and I don’t feel sexy when we make love it feels like he is always just out to please himself he doesn’t put my effort into the relationship either...
I think we are just together because we are comfortable and we wouldn’t know where to start if we had to separate or divorce...
I’m tired of always talking and bringing up matters and would like more effort from him which I have mentioned 
I’m just not enjoying making love to him anymore and I don’t know

Answer

Have you tried talking to him?  Every marriage has it's ups and downs. Marriage is a choice and it's work.  Really think and pray about it.  Most importantly talk to him, u guys may be feeling the same way and not even know it.  When my best friend was in  a bad marriage everybody was telling her to just leave.  I told her too leave when she could look in the mirror and honestly say " I did everything I could to make this work." When you can do that walking is the right decision but if you can't and you leave you will regret it one day.

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Don’t just give up, try counselling

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I feel the same way. I have been with my husband 12 years married 2. Its like we are just roommates or something. We did counseling once a while ago but I'm almost  to the point of giving up :(

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