Ladies i need your opinions..

Alright so basically i was sexually harassed a couple of years ago and it scarred me mentally.. i wouldn't talk to nor approach guys. Id literally be scared if they just touch me by mistake. But i met this guy 2/3 years ago and i .. i really liked him so i started getting used to being around guys slowly.. i let him in and became friends with his friends. Anyway, we went to a school ball together and he tried to kiss me at the end but the way he came up to me reminded me of the assault. So i pushed him away and said no..He was seriously hurt cause he didnt know why i think..And he broke things off not long after that night. Then he started dating my best friend, and they lasted throughout almost all higher secondary. At one point he blocked me on social media even tho i didnt talk to him or my "best friend". Then they broke up..

Then he started hanging out with and endrd up liking another one of my friends tho it was only a little crush for him.. but.. She actually liked him even tho she was going out with someone. he rejected her and hes now just best friends with her. After all this, he did try to make small talk and so on.. but nothing else. And things fizzled out because of our studies.

Fast forward to now.. we're in university and met last week incidentally and we got talking. We realised we both changed and it was kinda like something rekindled. We started talking a lot and meeting up as friends and him unblocking me on social media and flirting a lot..

We had a weekend getaway. And the first evening - night we were flirting nonstop, talking about what happened when we werent on speaking terms and dining together. Then alcohol came along. He was tipsy (i was fine) and we kissed(technically our first ever kiss) and then again and again and again during a film night. We then kept talking and went to his room with his friends to talk and we ended up alone again. We just kissed and cuddled and slept. It was adorable because he leant me one of his onesies and since it was big it would slide off my shoulder and hed pull it back up gently, kiss my shoulder then my head or cheek. He'd cuddle me and entwine our fingers and so on.

It was adorable. He then walked me to my room when his friends came back to sleep.

Next day it was weird.. he wouldnt talk to me much and stuff. Then he texts saying he thinks we should just be friends cuz he thinks hes not 100% in the right mind to continue on things and doesnt want to hurt me again. I said that its alright and that i understand. That same day we had an open bar and to put things bluntly, we both got drunk and we kept making out and dancing. i sobered up soon after and he kept kissing my head and cheek but he was super drunk and wasn't thinking straight so i decided to walk him back to the hotel. Then hey at 3 am but i replied late cuz i was helping my drunk friends then he texted later on in the morning thanking me for caring for him. I said that its no big deal i was worried for him and he was super drunk and couldn't trust him alone at the bar. Today it was super weird he kept staring at me shyly and sneaking glances but wouldnt talk. Now hes talking to me and opening up about his problems with friends and so on..

But.. idk where we stand. What do you think? what would you do?