I’m probably just overly emotional

I need to get this off my chest

My husband is a wonderful, caring, and loyal man.. I know there’s a lot worse I could complain about.. cheating, abuse, and so on.. it just sucks that everything feels like it falls on me. Our wedding for example. He checked in and out, he was excited but did BARELY anything to help plan or organize. He apologized and said he’d never do it to me agains. But here we are, trying for a baby. I’m taking my temp .. I’m putting preseed in.. I’m initiating sex and logging everything .. and he’s starting to check out again. He’s all about being excited about everything big in our life, but it falls on me to make it happen.