Taking a break from TTC?

Hey everyone! My SO and I have been TTC for 3 years and had a miscarriage a few months ago. I was already in my second trimester and we were picking out names and planning everything which hurt us deeply to lose our baby after growing so attached to it. The process of TTC for so long is really starting to wear on me and the miscarriage made things worse. I'm tired of being disappointed month after month. I'm thinking about getting on birth control and taking a year off of TTC. I feel like I'm giving up on our dream to have a baby but I just can't take it anymore. Sorry I really needed to vent and I'm in need of advice. Has anyone gone through something similar? Did you take a break? Do you think it would be a good idea? Thanks in advance