So my husband and I have been together for 5 years...5 years and I have never seen him ejaculate. I became very scared that we wouldn’t be able to have kids. The only thing I’d see after sex was clear pre cum. He told me the only way he can cum is if he masterbates.. alone. That really hurt my spirit and made me feel like I was not enough for him. But then I had to realize the only way I can orgasm is if I’m touching myself because I know exactly what I like and how I like it.

So yesterday night, he woke me up and showed me all this cum... I didn’t believe him so I tasted it, & yup it was cum 😂😂.

Anyway is it weird that this may be the only way I get pregnant...if he masterbates alone, and then cums inside of me? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Any advice on getting him to cum while we are doing it?

****UPDATE

thank you ladies for your words of advice. We are going to figure this thing out