He filed to take me to court for visitation but... *RANT*

He’s always been the one to cancel.

And ever since he has filed a motion last month..

I’ve had to call the cops cuz he wouldn’t give my child back

He hasn’t gotten him the past 2 weekends he was supposed to

He’s been asking for our child on my weekends.. which I say no to..

he’s tried to take our child out of school early because he starts work at 3 and our child doesn’t get out till 315 and then wouldn’t get him for his weekend at all and blamed me because I wouldn’t let him take him out of school...

I’m documenting everything. But seriously.. He’s taking me to court because of the shit he does and blames me for it. Talks shit about me on his fb too so now I have his friends calling me a dead beat and praising him for the amazing father he is... hes only supposed to get him every other weekend and half the time he cannot stick to it.

But in his affidavit he lied and said I’d leave him with him for WEEKS at a time with no contact. Which I have proof never happened.

I’ve been the ONLY person trying to make sure they had a good relationship for the past 6 years. Up until a year ago he’d always cancel to go party and drink.. I was just told a few weeks ago he’d also take my son with to party and would do cocaine. The only reason he is doing this court shit is cuz his new gf/possible baby momma (she cheated) told him too. Her sister is his lawyer.

I never talk badly about either one of them to or around my child. But him and his GF clearly say bad things about me and my BF and my family because my son has came home saying “my dads gf doesn’t like you cuz she wants to be my mommy” or “I’m sad.. my auntie is so beautiful but ***** doesnt like my auntie and I wish she did”

On top of it all.. he decided to do the court stuff around the time our son has to go thru testing for adhd/autism. Which.. I told him about but ya know he’s gonna say I never did just like all his other appts he’s never bothered to go to because “I didn’t remind him or even bother to tell him about”

Sorry for the long post I’m just irritated. My son asked me to tell his dad he missed him. He said he doesn’t want to tell his dad himself either.

As much as I want him and his dad to have a relationship.. sometimes I wonder if it would have been better for me to get full custody in the beginning when he was partying and all that stuff. 😞😞