Need advice. Pushy AF in laws!

Jaclyn

So I’ve been saying from the get go that I would like at least a week or two alone with my husband at home after I have our daughter. My in laws are SO pushy about everyone wanting to come stay with us the week she is born and I’ve even compromised to let only his mother and father stay. I’ve tried to explain to his sister (not that I feel like I should have even had to explain) that I will be in a lot of pain and simultaneously getting used to a newborn and breastfeeding. I don’t want to be confined to my bedroom for a week to breastfeed my child because everyone is at my house! Still the issue is pushed as she insists that “I know you’ll be in a lot of pain and stuff but it’s the only time we (her and my husbands other brother) could visit.” 🤬🤬🤬 My due date is over spring break 2019 so it’s like I’m terribly sorry that my wishes concerning the birth of my child are so incredibly inconvenient to YOU GUYS! Like I should push all my needs to the side so they can enjoy my child’s birth while I’m uncomfortable as fuck.

My question is how would everyone handle this situation? I feel so disrespected to say the least.

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