I feel like he has been emotionally abusive.

He controls the finances and sometimes makes big decisions without consulting me like choosing health care cover for us.

He told me he sees me and our daughter as an extension of himself and thats why he isnt generous with buying us things and why I have to work to convince him to pay for things I want or need.

Ive noticed him gaslighting me, changing the story of what has happened and telling me I'm not remembering it right. Also saying my feelings are just from right now and not acknowledging how important they are.

I have bipolar and he uses that as an excuse not to validate my emotions.

When I had a miscarriage in May he questioned if I was even pregnant in the first place and showed no compassion.

I have to ask him for hugs and affection.

Now that I'm saying I want a break he's using so many forms of guilting and telling me how upset HE is and its crushing HIM.

I just need to know, this isn't right is i