So my husband and I are doing long distance atm and will be doing it for the next year (it’s been months since he’s been gone due to work) and I have always been pretty open with him about who I’m hanging out with and he knows mostly all of my friends that I’m around from when he was back home. He never pries on what I’m doing but will ask questions and because I’ve never met any of his friends since his relocation I just hear of them, but don’t know them personally. My husband drinks a lot with his friends and lately it’s been taking its toll on our marriage he asked me one day after I got upset that he would rather go drinking then to make time to FaceTime “why are you so strict with me?” And also “ some of the guys are out here doing things they aren’t supposed to and cheating on their spouses and I don’t do any of that so I don’t know why it makes you so mad I go out” it sounded to me like all he wanted was to do the same as them so I asked him “I’m strict according to who ? All I ask is that you make time for me” my feelings are really hurt and I just feel this slight feeling of distrust for him which I hate so much. Recently I had a male friend ask if I wanted to go out for New Year’s <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> and when I brought it up to my husband he flipped and said that he didn’t trust men and that if I did something the trust would be gone and he would fuck me up by taking everything from me. I wasn’t asking because this friend and I have ever nor will we ever have anything I just thought it would be nice to get out of the house for a little. Looking back I feel like he’s deflecting some sort of guilt or something back on to me ...what is your opinion ? In case anyone ask I have never cheated on my husband or done anything to lose any type of trust I love him with all that I have.