I’ve struggled with anorexia and bulimia for three or four years. It’s been a long road, and I’m by no means recovered but I’m trying to work on it.

I told my boyfriend about all those issues and everything two months ago (we’ve been together for 8 months) and he was sweet and supportive and was like “I don’t want you to hurt yourself, I want you to get better”

But— we were at a family party last night and his mother was bothering me to eat constantly and he told them I’d already eaten (I had not and he knew). I’m not sure if this is a supportive & sweet move (making me not have to worry about it and alleviate that anxiety) or if he’s in a way enabling it ? Sorry this post is so long I just don’t know what to do. Ever since I told him about it he’s stopped taking me out to eat, too. I don’t want to ruin our relationship over this.