Need some mental guidance

I write this post and I’m sad and I’m in an extreme amount of pain both physically and mentally.

Yesterday I had to go to the er with sharp pain in my left side that hasn’t gone away. (I’m 4weeks plus some days) and I immediately get taken care of. The doctors and nurse are all so supportive and helpful. I end up getting some tests down, an ultrasound and a transvaginal ultra sound (not super comfortable) but it is what it is.

And then the result come back....

I am pregnant. (HCG @792)

I don’t have any infection.

I have a cyst on my left ovary.

And they weren’t able to find any gestational sac. So they werent able to rule out ectopic pregnancy.

The doctors said I am not far enough along to really tell what is going. To tell if the cyst is the ectopic pregnancy or if I just have a cyst.

It sucks because I am in pain. Mind you, it’s a very distinguishable type of pain. And I’m 20 years old. I should have a healthy pregnancy. It’s my first... and guys I’m just scared and sad. And I think not knowing is the worst. It leaves me in either extreme- I’m either too early and I’ll have a healthy pregnancy or Ill have an ectopic pregnancy.

My fiancé is supportive but I could tell that news hurt him too. I could use any guidance or stories of experience right now. I think anything will help.

I go to the Obgyn in two days to follow up.

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