Is it bad

Is it bad that I want to see how my last partner is doing? Does that disrespect my relationship? I don’t want to talk anything sexual but literally to see how he’s doing. But me and my boyfriend had a huge argument about him but me and my boyfriend are not as controlling as we were when we first started. So should I just leave it or hit him up and see what’s up.

But I also don’t want that guy to take my boyfriend as a joke and I would hate if my boyfriend did it to me. But I kno my intentions and that I’m not trying to do anything.