So I diagnosed with Lupus for about 9 years now. I have three small kids (8 ,7 and 5). My family are fucking stupid ass holes. I have flare-ups every once in a while. For the last few days I have told them I am not feeling well but that doesn't matter to them . "OH YOU ARE ALL WAYS TRIED" "YOU USED THAT AS AN EXCUSE" " YOU ARE SO LAZY" and the newest one " YOU ARE SUCH A BAD MOTHER YOUR KIDS NEED SOMEONE BETTER IN THIER LIFES" I have had two apartments three cars without their help at all. Right now I am living them but I am moving in less then a month out of state but the way I feel about things it once I move our relationship is over. I so sick of this that sometimes I want to just pack up my kids and never look back ugh.