GEEZ... AM I GOING CRAZY? 😭

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Sorry girls, I know I piss you off with my stuff. But I use this app to have support.... I’m sorry.... 
My man is in Turkey for training camp with our coach for 2 weeks. I have no issues with loyalty once again. I have no problems. The thing is that my man possesses himself as very special person. So he always tells me how for him to give someone attention is very important to him or how for him to even “follow” someone is very important. Since he tells me that, I build up his psychology a little bit and why he does some things. He only follows 6 people (family, me and some friends) he doesn’t have girl friends at all. 
So yesterday this girl, followed me on Instagram and liked many photos of mine. I always check who follows me, just to be sure that the person is normal. I click on her she has private account but I see that my man is following her. And now he has 7 followers... hmm... I was a little shocked because I know how he is with his attention. And she is from Turkey. Ok, but then I refresh my page and see she unfollowed me and deleted all the likes ! (Who has time for that?) and that was nothing but weird af. 
So I ask my man, hoping that we will just have a decent conversation. Again, if she wouldn’t act weird I wouldn’t ask. And WHAT DID HE DO? He YELLED AT ME for being “over” controlling. Are you serious? I wasn’t blaming him for anything I just asked who is that person and why she acted this way .... 😞😭 
And he said “I don’t even want to talk to you anymore” 
And now he is ignoring me... for some stupid person that he says “is nobody”. 
Please help figure out ....
P.S he also said “Who knows maybe you are unloyal? Who knows who you have over there? I never check your page... it seems I can’t even follow anyone anymore” 😭 everyday I tell him how much I love him, how much I wait for him... everyday I draw him drawings and write letters because he is the only one... and when I ask something because I’m worried he never answers. And just says “Well if you would’ve ask normally I would answer but now I just don’t want to explain anything. I’m tired.”
UPDATE: he unfollowed her after our talk but doesn’t talk to me. Silent treatment.
HE also always tells me how he loves being loyal to me and that he is loyal. He says it so much ... and that he is only mine. Like why?

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1st off, what a Douche.
2nd, I don’t think anyone here is pissed at you for posting.
3rd, you’re not crazy.
And finally (brace yourself), he definitely has something going on with that girl. She probably found out that he had you back home and got pissed and went and followed you and liked everything knowing that you would look and see who she was and how she found you, knowing that you would connect the dots and bring it up to him. When you brought it up to him, he panicked for fear of his cheating ass being discovered so he flips it on you calling you crazy for stalking his page (which is clearly false), and throws some bullshit at you saying you might be unfaithful when in reality he’s the unfaithful prick. He went to her and got pissed at her for doing that and demanded she unfollow you and unlike everything. And now he’s using the silent treatment as a form of guilting you for asking what would be a simple question if he had nothing to hide. 
Do yourself a favor and leave his ass. What an ass. I’m sorry girly.

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He’s a butthurt guilty dude who wants to make YOU feel bad when you haven’t done anything wrong whatsoever. You have every right to feel that way.

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I’m so sorry this is happening to you but it sounds like he’s guilty and trying to pawn off that guilt on you.

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That is awful, but it definitely sounds like he is guilty so he is trying to flip the blame on you. It sounds like a very toxic relationship and personally I feel like you deserve better. Best wishes

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But how can he act like that towards me when he told me so many things that you don’t say when you don’t mean them... he always said he has never treated someone like he treats me. That I truly matter to him. He said he wants to have a future with me... he always talks about how amazing and pure I am... 😭😞 I cant imagine him cheat on me, how can he look into my eyes if he did? He always says “I love being loyal to you” or “I’m always loyal to you”.... when I tell him “You’re the most amazing man to me, my champion, my everything” he answers “the most important thing is that I’m only yours” 
I know that... but it seemed like maybe he is programming myself with constantly repeating that? I’m very loyal, I don’t even talk to men online or in life. But I don’t tell him 24/7 that I’m loyal because I know I am... 
I just don’t understand how, girls ? How can a man that knows you are pure towards him, you want to be with him and do everything to show your love. Make gifts, draw stuff everyday because he says he loves it so much... knits a damn scarf for his birthday... lie ? Or look me in the eyes? That’s why I don’t believe he is cheating... but when I ask him about his past or for example “who is that?” He gets mad and says “Why do you care? It’s past. I don’t care about it so why should you bother yourself with nonsense that doesn’t matter?” 😞 and then in the end I’m ALWAYS guilty. And I’m the one that cries because he says “You know what? I’m tired of explaining myself (he never explains himself) I don’t even want to talk to you” or he just says “You know what? I’m better off alone” and in the end I apologize in tears and he says how much he cares and adores me.... and we keep going...

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Honestly I’d drop him and if you need closure try to message the girl and ask if anything is going on.

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yup 1,001% cheater

GEEZ... AM I GOING CRAZY? 😭

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