Should I worry?

Question

So my SO has a best friend who is a girl. I am not the jealous type so that's not my problem. My problem is he tells her EVERYTHING that happens in our relationship. Not going to lie he's out of town right now and we were having some fun over Skype when someone walked into the room he was in. The family he's staying with has a girl his age and that's who walked in (not his friend) she didn't see anything but he told his best friend about it. He also apparently tells her about every fight we have and the fact we've had miscarriages. Should I worry?

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I wouldn't say you need to worry as in, he's doing something shady with her, but everyone has boundaries and you need to establish those with him. My husband and I learned while we were dating not to spill our relationship problems to other people. I have a best girlfriend that I used as my sounding board and she was very neutral in the advice she gave. My hubby has female friends but if he started telling them sexual things about me or very personal things, I would feel uncomfortable. I think you should definitely have a talk with him and let him know how you feel. He might object at first and think you're being silly but he will eventually get the point. At least that's how my hubby is. Imagine if he had a problem getting it up in the bedroom and you talked to one of your guy friends about it? How would he feel?

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Sounds like you just need to talk to him about what you're okay with him telling others. Tell him it makes you incomfortable that someone knows so much about your relationship. Just try to keep calm and not be accusatory! Good luck!!

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I don't think you have anything to worry about. Everyone needs a sounding board, and sometimes he needs a sounding board aside from you, because you are part of the scenario (good or bad).

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He should not have a best friend.

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I dont think you should worry too much just sit and talk to him about how you feel, toning down him telling his bestfriend everything thats personal and should be kept between you guys

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