I've read many articles that claim oral sex should be avoided when ttc due to saliva slowing down sperm or damaging them. Sex should be enjoyable when ttc and I enjoy receiving and it's tough to tell my husband to avoid doing that for me but I do so anyways for fear of ruining our chances.

Thoughts on this, true/ false, any experiences you'd like to share to debunk this?

I'm ttc #1 and haven't had any luck in the past 4 months of trying and all 4 months I've avoided oral sex during my fertile window. Now I'm thinking I should quit being so stressed about Do's and Don'ts and just enjoy making love to my husband. TTC can make sex such a chore and now we both just feel tons of pressure to conceive and can't seem to enjoy our time together like we used to. I feel like ttc is ruining our sex life.