Had Sex for the First Time
So I had sex for the first time today. My boyfriend (we were each other’s first) did an amazing job warming me up to make sure it didn’t hurt. He even started like eating me out right before even though he saw the spotting that I was doing (my period is in like 12 days) and even used a condom even though I’m on Nexplanon.
My boyfriend and I have been together for three months but I honestly love this man. He’s the sweetest, most caring man ever who cared about my own pleasure more than his. I tried giving him a BJ but when I couldn’t he wasn’t even mad about it. He said he understood and made sure i was okay the whole time since he knows my past with being an assault survivor (I was never raped with a penis but I was groped/fondled multiple times against my wishes and one guy even stuck fingers in when I didn’t want him too). We’ve known each other for years beforehand and I’m thankful both of our first times today were more fun than awkward.
Question: Is it normal to feel sore after? It’s not bad but i have like a sore feeling in my abdomen. I know bleeding is normal too and all that. Also is it weird to feel like you feel different? Like I feel like a different person lol

^ also that gif is an accurate representation of my dog who refused to get out of the room and just sat in the dog bed at the foot of my bed the whole time
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