Why why why

Why is it always the girls who get the blame for so called choosing men like who end up treating them badly? Its like we don't know they'd end up treating me like this, at the beginning they never give any hint. I'm not a mind reader? It infuriates me when women or men say "choose better men next time". Alright I'll just use my psychic powers and realise they're gonna turn into pieces of shit..

That's like saying to someone who's with someone abusive, mentally, emotionally or otherwise "oh well choose someone better next time". Like people don't come with an insight into their mind?!