How do you deal with all the negative comments for having your babies close in age? My boys will be 19 months apart which I don’t think is that crazy...

This happens with people that don’t know me very well and mostly at work (since it’s people I’m around daily). I work at a very big company and I like to be friendly with everyone but omg! I’m getting so irritated! Since I started showing it seems like people are coming out of the woodworks to share their opinions.. They were all so kind and excited for me with my first pregnancy but now that I’m pregnant again I’ve gotten so many negative comments I’m about to lose my cool. Here are some things they say;

Omg! why so soon?

Oh wow! That’s going to be insane

You guys are crazy!

Gosh you didn’t waste anytime! Geesh!

You’re going to have to watch your oldest,

My friend’s kid bit the baby!

Kids that close are going to be rivals

Or a simple cringe, which is the most frustrating

So ladies! How do you deal with this? I try to ignore it but my pregnancy hormones want me to lash out lol!

UPDATE:::::::::

Thanks ladies for your messages! I guess I just needed to vent. I so badly want to say something to make them realize how unbelievably insensitive their comments are but I guess I’ll have to learn to shake it off. ☺️