Wanting another baby but to afraid, any one else?

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So I had my baby 3 months ago, and I'm not ready for another one yet but I do want another baby someday, but I'm so afraid of the birth that it could possibly keep me from ever having another baby. I didnt have a good experience my first birth. Anyone else feel this way?

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3 months is pretty soon to wrap your head around going through pregnancy, birth, and the newborn stage again. Give it more time. How you feel now probably isn’t how you will feel in a year.

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My first was traumatizing as well! I had 2 failed epidurals, once they missed the mark and had to pull the needle out and repoke me, I ended up with absoulty no pain medication and doing it natural. My son was stuck and no matter what I did he wasn't coming out. His oxygen and heart rate dropped, and mine quickly followed along with a oxygen mask being shoved on my face and I kept passing out. I don't remember much after that, but I do know I was to far along for a c section and they ended up using some tool to pull him out. Luckily he survived but he wasnt breathing when he was finally born, and his lungs were full of fluid. 
I've had 2 more babies since then, 1 with pain meds, and she was literally nothing, quick birth and labor. The 3rd I did completely natural again, and she was really easy as well thankfully. Every birth will be different!

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My first birth was defiantly traumatizing. 
26 hrs - failed epidurals - episiotomy- forceps..
I felt everything from beginning to end and I told myself I would never ever put myself through that. 
Well here we are 3 years later , 39 weeks pregnant. And looking back ya it was bad. But worth it.  The pain is over , and yes I will feel it again , but my little girl was so worth it. 
It defiantly takes some time to prepare yourself again. Give it a bit ! ❤️❤️

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Every pregnancy is different your 2nd could go much better than your last so don't let one bad experience stop you from having another baby

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Yep. Mine was traumatic. But around 1.5 years after I gave birth I did some healing work and felt ready again.

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