When did you feel ready to have sex after abortion?

I’m still processing and dealing with my emotions/hormones being out of wack.

When I think about having sex with my SO I get anxious and worried..what if it happens again, what if my new IUD fails like the last one did?

When did you feel comfortable having sex after an abortion? My SO has not brought it up, or tried to insinuate anything.

I just want to feel normal again. I feel weirdly betrayed but I don’t know why.