14 weeks

Ladies. Idk what’s normal or not. In this picture I’m 14 weeks exactly. I’m not pushing out my stomach and I’m just relaxed. I showed my coworker and she asked if I was pushing out or “trying too hard” to LOOK pregnant. Am I not supposed to be this big? It gets bigger at night than the afternoon and mornings I see her at work. Just wondering and feeling insecure about my bump.