Lo won’t go to sleep without a fight

I dunno if anyone else has this problem, but my lo will not nap during the day and at night I can’t get her to bed without a fight. She’s 4.5 months old and will only go to sleep on my boob in my bed. Right when I get up and move her to her bassinet she instantly screams bloody murder and won’t take her pacifier. I’ll either have to bring her back to bed with me or rock her until she’s finally asleep. Tonight bedtime took almost 2 hours. Anyone have any advice? I’m so frustrated 😭