I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost two months. He’s a great guy, very smart, very funny and very sweet. I just have a problem with him not making much of an effort to spend time together. This left me hesitant to start a relationship in the first place but he has so many other good qualities I was just hoping it wouldn’t bother me, but itsmy number one pet peeve.

We only hang out when he has time bc he’s so busy so I feel like I’m just waiting for his call or text all day. A week can go by and he’ll ask me to go over to his house but that’s boring I rather do something fun. I know it’s early in the relationship but i already feel like I’m not a priority.

I’ve brought this up before and we were supposed to go out once a week but even that I had to convince him to do bc he said he likes “missing someone” and he doesn’t need to see someone everyday. I don’t need to see him everyday but at least once a week for more than 6 hours. All we do is go to a bar or to his house and it’s hard to talk and get to know someone when we’re not together for very long or sleeping for most of it.

Honestly I’m getting bored and I feel I need more attention. I know he likes me but he makes no effort, lately I’ve started wondering if I gave up single for only/talking to someone once a week bc we barely text once a day. He makes time for his friends but just not for me. I’m so confused and I need help. We’ve had this conversation before but I guess he didn’t get it and not wanna keep talking about the same thing. Any advice?

I’m a private person and don’t like taking to friends.