I go on the group now and then and some of the ladies post real problems some aren't. I've been married for 7 years it's hard work, but I love my husband dearly with all his flaws. Anyway I go on there and any problem the solution/advice is to leave your husband and run. I know for a fact my marriage lasted because my husband and I are devoted to God and each other. I not saying I dont understand that some situations are really bad. God can change your life, we use to fight and cuss at each other like bad. God changed us so much. I just wish these ladies dont just give up so easily after 5 months of marriage. Choosing to get married is a commitment for life.