Is how I feel normal?

I am always in the mood for sex, it really bothers me because my boyfriend is super sweet and just wants to spend time with me sometimes and not be sexual. I love him very much and I really do just want to relax with him and cuddle.... It's hard for me becuse when I get turned on it becomes very uncomfortable for me to avoid sexual activity.... I get very swollen and wet and I get very sensitive. It's very embarrassing. I have been open with him about it and he is fine to help me cum if I need to, but I would rather find a way to just avoid being constantly sexual and spend time with him... Any suggestions?