Dysphoria??

Question

So recently I’ve had feelings of wanting to be a boy, but I also like being a girl and it confuses me. It’s really weird because sometimes I get frustrated when I realize that I’ll b a girl forever, but I also am proud to be a girl???? If that makes sense??? I randomly get dysphoria for one or the other and it’s kinda been hurting my head. On the other hand my family’s very against trans people so I feel like things r just hopeless. The other day tho when my family wasn’t home I dressed like a guy and took a picture. It just felt right.

I really don’t know what to do. If I also transitioned into being a guy I’d feel dysphoria because I also like being a girl.

(Me currently)

I really don’t know what to do. If I also transitioned into being a guy I’d feel dysphoria because I also like being a girl.

(Me currently)

Answer

Both my friend and my cousin are the same. What I offered them were these three different coloured bracelets, the blue was if they felt closer to male, the pink for female and I also gave them a black one if they weren't sure that day.
It gave them a sense of security, they told me after a while anyway. And sometimes they'd have both the black and a colour for if they weren't entirely sure but that's close to what they wanted.
It also helped others for their pronouns, the colour obviously meant what we'd use for them. It might give you security too, to look at them and think "yeah, this is me today"

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I’m not sure exactly how you are feeling but i just wanted to say you look gorgeous both ways! 😍👍🏻👏🏻

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I have friends that feel like this. They cater to whichever way they are leaning that day. I’m unsure of the terminology but it’s a real thing so don’t feel crazy or anything. Just do what feels right for the day and tell your folks you wanna dress down some days.

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You can be "both" the spectrum is wide and long. I see you as more the androgynous archetype.

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Your probably gender fluid (I swear I’m not trying to push labels on anyone) but if you want to identify that way then you can decide what pronouns to use and if you want to be a boy for however long you want to, or if you want to be a girl. And you can always switch

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Gender doesn't have to be either or. You could be gender fluid and experience different aspects of gender depending on circumstances (or my husband reckons hormone fluctuations). Embracing whatever you're feeling like that day can help.

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