Losing virginity!?

Question

How do I prepare to lose my virginity? 
Such as what mind set do I need to be in as I understand it’s a very emotional time. 
What’s the best position for least pain?
Will I need towels and stuff in case I bleed lots? 
I’m stressing out now haha
I feel ready, just nervous

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Honestly it’s very over rated xxx

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You should not bleed. If you are properly lubricated and aroused and you go about it slow, you shouldn't bleed. You should also not be in any pain - maybe uncomfortable, but not painful. If you're in pain, prepare more and try again. Don't feel pressured to succeed on your first go around. It's okay if it doesn't happen. If you're in excruciating pain, you're going to want to talk to your doctor. Also make sure you're protected from pregnancy AND STDs.

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Did you talk to the guy? Do you feel like you can trust him to share this moment? If so, then you're ready. I had my first time months ago with my boyfriend and I can tell you it is something very natural. With me it hurted a bit but it wasn't anything that would kill me and as we continued to do, it passed. The position that was better for me was on top of him because I could control how much would go in and how fast it was, so it really helped with the pain. I hope it goes well with you, don't forget to protect yourself from infections and pregnancy.

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It’s different for everyone, but my best advice is to be honest about what you’re feeling (it shouldn’t be overtly painful, despite what we frequently hear), and to make sure you’re with someone you trust to listen to you (and that you’re comfortable enough to voice your concerns to) if you feel like something is wrong. Even great sex is a little awkward sometimes, and everything comes with a learning curve. Don’t let it scare you, but don’t expect perfection on your first go. 
As for bleeding, I think that’s different for everyone too, but being relaxed and appropriately lubricated does make a huge difference. Going slow and gentle at first is important. (In my case, he was very gentle and I didn’t have any pain. I bled only a little, but had some significant spotting the next day.)
And Kaytlyn is absolutely right. Make sure you are protecting yourself from both pregnancy AND STDs.

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It won't be as bad as you think.  I read terrified my first time but it ended up hurting very little and I didn't bleed at all just had some spotting the next day. Good luck!

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