How to cope?

Hey guys, let me explain my current situation.

I'm currently 20 and 2 months partum to twin boys.

God I love them so much.

I'm a single parent, but not necessarily by choice. Baby daddy wants to be in my life, but we're both being kept apart from so many circumstances, such as money, religious aspect, and that our families really REALLY dislike each other.

He promises he'll be with me soon as he's now working pretty hard.

But how do I cope? I'm constantly being bombarded by my parents' opinion on him and his family and it's very draining if you add two little crying babies that need to be cared for.

How can I fight off this stress??

Thank you!