Anyone else sick of there family in law?

I’m honestly fed up with the fam in law. It seems I’m the only one that puts effort into them seeing my baby girl. They never come to visit. It’s a one sided effort. Even my SO doesn’t put effort into making plans to have our daughter see his mother or siblings. I told him that I give up on putting any effort. I’ll only be going for the nieces and nephews birthdays and that’s it. I’m tired of hearing how they never see her, yet they never make any sort of plans to visit or meet up. Never video chat or nothing. Just comment/like pictures. I’m pregnant again, and I don’t want the same thing for this kid. I had a grandmother who was never around and I noticed it when I was about 10. And it’s not a good feeling. Especially when your other grandmother is completely involved and visits and talks to you constantly. My mom is such an amazing grandmother and I’m so happy that my daughter has that. Both my parents are fully involved with my baby girl. So it’s not completely tragic I guess.