We didnt do them. Comes from the idea of ‘we don’t want the expectation that our marriage will fail’. But to each their own!

I'm for them. 🤷 I have a lot of inherited money, stocks and land from when my papa passed, and my husband also works hard for his money. Our prenup is pretty much.. you can leave with what you came into the relationship with.. but everything else is fifty fifty.. unless it was bought by one person specifically.

myself and my soon to be Husband are getting them done. I honestly wouldn't take offense in it or be hurt.

My mom didn’t sign one and my farther ended up getting her 100k inheritance when they divorced. Do with that information as you will...

I think the only people that need them are people with a significant amount of wealth. For an average couple I think it’s ridiculous and you’re just basically planning your divorce. If you can’t trust the person you’re marrying, don’t get married

Idk I think some people turn sour when going through a divorce... I know a lot of us think “I would never go after everything my spouse earned/inherited.” But people change🤷🏽‍♀️

Before my husband and I got married I offered to sign one because he was very well off and although I have no intention on taking anything from him ever, I wanted him to feel secure.. he didn’t want me to sign one but I could tell he appreciated the offer.

My man and I are both poor as fuck so it doesn’t matter to us lol

Me and my hubby never even mention one we also plan on our relationship to last forever

My now husband wanted one because his father said we should (since they are kind of wealthy) but I did not like the idea at all because it hurt my feelings as well and I was worried that I would be left with nothing if we did divorce (my family is very poor) not that I was money hungry but I don’t work because he makes a decent amount of money and I have had some bad experiences at my past few jobs (long story short I was sexually assaulted at the past three so he said stay home) and so I don’t make a lot of money and if anything happened to us I’d be screwed, I don’t have any family to stay with, no savings or anything. After talking it out for awhile we also came to the conclusion that it was like a giant what if hanging over our shoulders. We didn’t go with one and we both felt like it was the best decision for us. But every couple is different. Make sure you talk about it and hopefully you can come to an agreement soon. :)