tired of my boyfriend not helping out

my boyfriend has become the most laziest person ever. he doesn’t help out with anything and if I ask I literally have to nag him and he’ll get up when I’m at my wits end but won’t get up when I need the help the first time I ask

I have to get mad for him to help me. I do his laundry and everything I do like cleaning but there are times where I ask for help but I don’t ask for much help ever.

If I’m trying to mop keep the cats out of the kitchen, vacuum or take out the trash.

I literally only ask him to do those three things and it’s not ever time. I ask maybe once or twice a week?

How hard is it for him to help out? I just don’t really understand. Most working men come home and help their wife/girlfriend but I don’t ask for anything except once or twice a week?

He doesn’t realize how easy he has it and I hate that I sound like his mom... but why push me to my wits end to get you to do something so simple? Anytime we have a talk about it he gets mad and throws it into my face that he works long hours. So the fuck what I don’t ask for anything really... I do everything.

Grocery shop, take care of both of our cats (I do it all from the litter box to feeding to meds, lol it sounds like a child😂)

I cook and do all the dishes after, I mop & clean up all the cats mess on top of anything in bathrooms and kitchen. I do the outside work too. I’m just so frustrated....

I totally understand being tired after work but I don’t ask everyday and I don’t ask for a long list just one or two things maybe twice a week?

It sucks. He always throws in my face that he works more and stuff. He works from 10-2 & 5-8or9 he gets a 3 hr break to come home. I just feel like he has it easy and doesn’t realize

Just now our cat had an accident on the floor and he sat there playing his game while I picked everything up after I just cooked and cleaned.

I’m so sick of him. I don’t even know what to do... I feel like I resent him.

We’ve been together for almost 4 years now and bought a house. It’s not like I want to leave but want some actual constructive advice.

I don’t wanna continue getting mad but I just feel like I truly don’t ask for much.