How to tell your partner you don’t want anymore kids🙊

Okay, ladies! So I had my first daughter at 29 weeks and had a ton of complications. It was the hardest thing I ever had to go through.

I’m now pregnant with my second and have decided that I’m done. I’ve been having way too many complications with this pregnancy and I can’t do this to another baby and also be okay.

Just to let everyone one know, the reason we tried again was because the doctor said it wouldn’t happen again even though it is.

I don’t want to put another human through this again and I honestly can’t handle the feeling that I’m being selfish and etc.

But my SO wants to have four kids and wants to have a son. I told him that we can adopt but he says it’s not the same since there’s no one to carry on the name or his genes.

I just feel like two kids are perfect. So should I feel a certain way because I agreed to four or should I just put my foot down? I’m not sure what to do.