Too old for drama!
Finally found a place to rant and to ask if I'm over reacting 😂
Background
So I have had the same group of friends for years but one of my friends got a new gf and things started to change in our group. She would message to meet for coffee to complain about her relationship and then never turn up blaming anxiety (I'm not being horrible I'm aware of how it can affect people) but now and again she would turn up. In this time she would complain about other memebers of the group and would tell things I didn't think were appropriate.
Now
The two have married and Our large group has now split into several small groups, which this girl likes to be part of (i no longer message either one after being ignored for so long). Our group never meets up anymore which makes me feel like they have turned their back on me. One other girl feels the same as me so the two of us make sure to meet up as often as we can.
However if we invite people to meet for coffee/walk/outing etc. They either don't reply or can't make it. If we don't invite and they find out they have a go at us. It's like we can't win and the stress isn't what I need right now with <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> going badly.
I honestly don't know what to do. One to one I have expressed how I feel but one to one they blame each other. I've honestly always been there for them and it feels like now I need them they have left me to it.
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