Would I be allowed to be upset?

Question

Yesterday I went to the doctor after twenty days of vaginal bleeding I have pcos and have been ttc  4 years the bleeding started after what I thought was an excruciating period with tissue and everything gross but my doctor thinks  I had a miscarriage am I allowed to be upset if I didn’t even know I was pregnant?

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First of ALLLL, WHO SAID NO???!? You are allowed to feel anything you need to feel

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Honey yes absolutely you can be upset.  Hell spend the day in the couch with a tub of ice cream, you deserve it. A loss is a loss no matter what. Prayers for you hun❤

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You’re allowed to feel ANY way you feel! Nobody gets to decide how you feel or how you can/should feel. Just you. I’m so sorry this happened to you and sorry for the ignorant & insensitive ppl who make you feel otherwise. 🙏🏼❤️

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Omg I accidentally clicked no... you are absolutely allowed to be sad! Just because you didn’t know about it before doesn’t make it less of a loss

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Yes. That’s a lot to process. Let yourself feel how you need to feel and acknowledge your feelings. No need to suppress, that won’t help at all.

Would I be allowed to be upset?

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