Tips?

So I’ve been dating my fiancé for 5 years now. And the other day he was talking about getting off on your own.i don’t mind that he does. Whatever . But I don’t really ever.... I did a little when we first started dating but I’ve never made myself cum and idk if that’s weird?

He says I should be exploring on my own to figure out what I like but... I like him so. 🤷🏼‍♀️