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I too had a missed miscarriage, the feeling is unbearable. You will eventually come to peace, but it will take time and you will always miss your little angel. Kind thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Losing my baby
I've never experienced anything like this. I found out today that my baby is no longer living. Went to the ER for mild cramps, no bleeding. They ran test and saw I had a UTI, went to check for my baby's heart beat and nothing. Sonogram and there is no movements or a heart beat. This is awful.
My baby was due feb,9th. It would of been 17 weeks. I have to wait till Tuesday to see my doctor to see what to do next. Set up delivering it this week?? That is what they told me at the ER. THIS is so devastating, I'm laying in bed and all I can think of is my baby is dead and it's still inside my body. What a nightmare.
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Thank you ladies. I'm now at the hospital waiting to deliver my baby. This is such a nightmare. I have to go through the whole birth process and remember everything. I just want this to be over.
As
I'm sorry. I see this was on Sunday now. 😕
As
It's all going to be over soon. Just remember that.
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Good luck darling🙏🙏🙏
I went through this exact thing Christmas of last year. We went through with Christmas like normal for my son's sake. It was so bizarre knowing I had a dead baby inside of me. I went into the hospital Dec 26th and they gave me an IV with medicine to induce labor. The labor pains were pretty bad but they gave me a double dose of Staydol and it knocked me out. I barely felt anything when I delivered. It was the hardest thing I ever went through. I will never get over it. It is devastating but you will learn to live again. It's hard but lean on family and friends as much as you can.
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My son is 5 years old too. I honestly can't remember Christmas last year because it was so hard. I put on my best fake smile and went through with it tho. My baby died at about 17 weeks. We found out there was no heartbeat when we went on December 23rd to see if it was a boy or girl.
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I also lost mine around Christmas last year. My daughter was alive the morning I lost her, my body went into labor on it's own luckily. Christmas for us, too, was pretty much just going through the motions for our 5-year-old son. Such a hard thing. :(
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So sorry. There really isn't anything anyone can say to you to ease the pain. What helped me was talking to people that had gone through it. I felt so alone until I discovered so many people I knew came up and told me "I know EXACTY what you're going through". Hang in there. Its not easy right now, but it will get easier with time. It will be a rollercoaster for awhile.
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