Military wives

Any ladies on here military spouses that have Tricare? I am struggling to get a referral quick enough to schedule my first ob appointment. The clinic that I was going to has no ob appointments until April or May and I have 5 weeks tomorrow so that is obviously way to long. And the clinic said that it could take up to two weeks for the referral to no longer be pending and for my insurance to see it so I can go somewhere else. Anyone have advice??? I’m stressing big time and I know that’s not good for the baby.